Monday, November 2, 2009

GONE FOR WEEK - SEE ME IN OKLAHOMA

I'll be talking ghosts Friday and Saturday at the Red Dirt Literary Festival in the Sooner State, where I was born and went to high school. Lots of ghosts for me.

I'll also find time to visit my favorite graveyard. It's a small hidden meadow on tribal land near Quapaw. The exsiting graves are simple coffin hollows (depressions in the ground) now, but they are special in other ways.

"Breathing" pipes extend from underground into the air at each gave site.

While I usually write ghosts, I am also busy collecting WITCH LORE from various parts of the South. I hope to hear something about the elusive Cherokee witches while visiting with Western-band members of The People. Maybe a Choctaw witch or two, as well.

Because of a rockslide blocking I-40 just west of Asheville, I'll be taking a two-hour detour to fabulous Johnson City, Tennessee, on my way out of town. And, because I don't fly unless I have to, I'll be driving two days each to get there and back. So I am gone for a week, more or less.

Until I am home again, I'll leave you (in my next post) with a musical ghost encounter I heard in Burlington, North Carolina.

Saturday, October 31, 2009

My Vote: BEST HALLOWEEN COSTUME 2009

A vampire chihuahua at right! (I think he’s named Edward.)

Friday, October 30, 2009

Cricket Messenger Ghost for Halloween

Just in time for Halloween, I heard a wonderful ghost experience from an audience member at the May Memorial Library in Burlington, North Carolina, last week.

It was the true story of a Ghost Cricket. No kidding.

I was talking about the ways people experience ghosts, you know, by seeing one, hearing one, feeling an icy presence on the stairs... There are even ghosts you can smell.

I also had spoken about the number of times people have told me they dreamed a ghost of a recently-passed loved one who, in the dream, tells them where something (often money) is hidden.

When they get up the next day, they look in this dream-revealed location and that something (again, often money) is found. Apparently, it troubles people to no end when they die and forget to tell a loved one where to find the rainy-day cash that was hidden away.

Because I have heard explicit examples of this type of ghost visit, I advise people when they do see a ghost to be sure to ask it where the money is.

And up popped a hand from the seats in Burlington followed by the woman's story of a cricket ghost that appeared in her life.

A cricket shows up (well, the sound of a cricket) following the death of a woman's father. She has been staying in her father's house through the last days of his final illness.

The woman follows the cricket chirps all through the house for a period of three days. There's just one circket chriping, but it leads her over the span of time throughout the house.

Finally, she isolates the circket in her father's bedroom. Having drawn her there, the circket is no longer heard in other rooms of the house.

On the second day, the cricket only starts chirping when she enters his room. She leaves the bedroom and goes back. Each time she opens the door, the cricket starts chriping.

No matter where she stands in the room, though, she can't quite tell where the chirps are coming from. Until the third day.

One the third day, the cricket is clearly chriping away inside the dresser. Once she approaches the dresser, it shuts up. She opens and closes each dresser drawer in sequence. When she opens the fourth drawer, the circket chirps.

She takes all the socks and underwear out of the drawer. No cricket. But when she closes the empty drawer, the cricket starts up again. So she removes the drawer from the dresser and sets it on the bed next to the items of clothing.

The empty drawer starts chirping. Frustrated and thinking she might be going nuts, the lady finally turns the drawer upside down. And, you guessed it, there's the cricket. She reaches for it and it jumps away.

"I saw it, then it just left," she told me. "It just wasn't there any longer."

But something else was.

A cardstock business-size envelope had been taped to the bottom of the drawer. Inside, the woman finds a certain number [I won't say the amount here for privacy's sake] of hundred-dollar bills.

Over the course of several weeks, no other money was found while clearing out her father's estate. Oh, and the cricket that "wasn't there any longer" was never heard chriping inside the house again.

Monday, October 19, 2009

TRUE GHOSTS in Burlington, North Carolina

I will be sharing true ghost experiences this weekend:

2 p.m Sat., Oct. 24
May Memorial Library
Burlington, N.C.


Ghost Cats of the South & Ghost Dogs of the South will be available. But I'm much more interested in hearing ghost experiences than I am in selling a books.

Monday, October 12, 2009

What's NOT a Ghost - And What Is

First of all, the kid in the sheet is not a ghost.

Still, it's a cute photo. And the outfit being worn is likely most tantalizing to bears in the vicinity. They love it when you can't see them coming.

Things that are told to me as ghost encounters that I get VERY unexcited about are cached photos of orbs.

1. At least 99.99% of the photos of orbs taken by digital cameras are NOT ghosts. That's just an opinion, mind you. But, I really, truly never want to see another orb photo.

Until one talks to me, I remain unconvinced that digital-camera produced orbs have anything to do with ghosts.

Maybe when someone gets a photo of an orb wearing a hat or eating a piece of pizza, you can sign me up as faithful follower of the Orbitists. Until then....

2. Okay, I think it is really nifty when people find things they lost. The fact that I looked for something right there and didn't see it, then looked right there again and find it, does NOT mean a ghost was hiding it from me.

Because people do have near-death experiences, I will accept that near-ghost experiences occur. Perhaps they occur with some frequency. Sometimes when you are alone you have the eerie feeling someone is watching you. Except when someone is (now that's scary), you might be experiencing a ghost.

When you wake up in the morning in a house all by yourself and you hear someone whispering your name over and over again this could very truly be a ghost experience. I know a young woman who moved out of her ground-floor college apartment after two weeks of experiencing this ghostly whispering of her name. An old house near UNC-Asheville had been divided into two apartments downstairs.

She said she felt as if she were being softly touched... that it was this touching that woke her and then she heard the voice. She had never experienced anything similar before moving in or after leaving the apartment. She told me that even driving on the street where the old house is located still fills her with a sense of ominous dread.

Do you believe this is a true ghost experience? I do.

When it comes to ghosts, seeing is sometimes believing. But, believe me, you don't have to see a ghost to encounter a ghost. The ghost only has to see you.

Monday, October 5, 2009

13 TYPES OF GHOSTS


This is pretty basic stuff. Ghosts tend to be defined by

A.) what they are up to now

and by B.) how they died.

I would add by C.) how they are experienced or encountered by the living.

I have very detailed stories (collected from the people who experienced them) of each.

Let’s go with A.) for now. Ghost Types by What They Are Up To.

1. Stuck Ghosts. Going about their normal routine as if alive. These ghosts seem to get stuck in the real world somehow.

Some are stuck in their favorite earth places. I hear story after story of kitchen ghosts. They just like being there. I also hear of ghosts attached to a particular piece of furniture (watch out for rocking chairs, Lay-Z Boy recliners, and beds!) and small objects, including jewelry.

2. Dying-Again Ghosts. Over and over and over again. Popular, as an idea anyway, on ghost tours.

3. Searching Ghosts. They're looking for something and aren't going away until they find it.

4. Comfort Ghosts. Relatives and loved ones who drop by to let you know that everything is okay and it is time for you to quit grieving.

5. Protecting-You or Warning-You Ghosts. A ghost who appears to keep a wandering child safe from the cliff's edge is an example.

6. Mean Ghosts. They just want attention and don't care how they get it.

7. Sad Ghosts. These ghosts are stuck in re-living their most sorrowful moments in life. You hear them weeping. Oh, and weeping... and weeping some more.

8. Message Ghosts. They have a message for you, specifically for you. Often a relative. They tell you where money is hidden, for example.

9. Messenger Ghosts. They have a message for you. But the message is from someone else, usually dead. Really rare, these courier ghosts are absolutely scream-scary when the messenger is a stranger ghost.

10. Explaining Ghost. This ghost wants someone, anyone, to know what really happened.

Even from this general list, you can see that there are two very basic types of ghosts that people experience:

1. Ghosts who are stuck where they are.

2. Ghosts who go away.

As I hear people tell me of their own ghost encounters, my first division as to type is between ghosts of people you know and ghosts of strangers.

11. Ghost Animals. They fit almost all of the above and include beloved family-member dogs and cats, but also horses and, yes, even cows. I have heard of two first-person encounters with bovine boo-critters.

12. Animal Ghosts. These are people ghosts using the form of an animal to visit you. Common as a comfort ghost, as well. You run across a talking dog, it may not be the dog who is doing the talking.

13. Finally, experiences of God, angels, faeries, cognition of living people in dire straights far away, etc. seem to share some phenomena with ghost experiences. They are different and I don't include them in my own catalog of first-person ghost encounters.

Some people like to say spirits are not tied to earth, ghosts are. I personally think there's a little more overlap than that. I accept that ghosts might make a visit in your dreams (what others would call spirit encounters).

Friday, October 2, 2009

BASIC TYPES OF GHOSTS

In any number of ways ghosts can be divided into basic types.

There are two basic ways of experiencing a ghost:

1. Ghosts you see.

2. Ghosts who see you.

In ways an individual might become a ghost, there are basically two types again:

1. Ghosts who are ghosts on purpose.

2. Ghosts who are ghosts by accident.